The last few years have changed how we look at everyday activities. Handshakes have become elbow bumps, waving at each other online is the new way to end a meeting and zoom no longer means moving quickly. As we all start to look forward to spring and the planned options for gatherings it can be difficult to adjust our behaviours. 

The important thing to know is it is ok to set your own boundaries! Feel more comfortable with outdoor gatherings with friends? Look at how our local parks can become your new picnic hang out or explore new trails together. Patios for dining are becoming year-round, nothing wrong with sharing that you like the people watching that offers! Eager to explore public art? Miss your favorite musical artists? Whatever it is that you are looking forward to sharing it with others is likely to be the largest part of that experience. 

The important thing is to communicate your comfort levels with your friends and family in a respectful way. Making plans ahead of time is the best way to work through those concerns. If you feel strongly about outdoor events being the best way to meet up with friends take the initiative and help plan it.  If you feel pressured to do things you aren’t ready for it is important to say early that might not be a fit for you. Don’t wait until you arrive at a gathering to try and change how its structured, dress codes may be a thing of the past but there is nothing wrong with asking that masks be a part of your attire! 

Looking for a really unusual way to get back into the swing of social activities? Think about community involvement! So many ways to connect with each other are based around volunteering, from a park clean up to vaccine clinic there is something for everyone. Need some ideas for how you could get involved? 

Try a resource like Volunteer MBC for options near you.